Monday, April 13, 2009


We went to Cs grandparents Saturday for Easter and we got to see our 8 month old nephew he is changing so fast. He got his first tooth and is setting up and rolling all over the place. He is so funny. C and I also colored eggs Saturday and the Easter bunny came by and hid them for her. It was a busy but fun day.

We got to see baby pictures of our donor yesterday. He was so cute blonde hair, blue eyes, and a round head. They called him little fat man. His baby book said that he like to play with the magazine rack and when they slapped his hand and said no he would look at them and laugh. It also said that he wasn't sleeping through the night at six months, he would still get up once or twice a night to eat. His parents said if he was their first they wouldn't of had a second. I think I'm in for it. Its hard to believe that possibly next Easter we will have a little one to take care of, if the insemination goes well.

We also arranged our wedding. We will be getting married on April 30th in Burlington, Iowa. I thought it was a 3 hour drive but I was mistaken it more like 5 hours so it will be a long day. We have to do it in one day because we have to be home to medicate the animals. My mom is going with us to be our witness.


Monday, April 6, 2009

you may kiss the bride

I went over to my moms Sunday and she gave me a blanket that she had made for my brother, when he was a baby. I was sooo happy that she gave it to me. It made me feel good that she wanted us to have it. She is an awesome mom and she has always been suportive of me but when she gave me that blanket it was like her telling me I will except Cs baby as my grandchild.

Then last night I asked C if she wanted to go on a 3 hour and 20 minute drive on our anniversery. Which is April 30th. We had a commitment ceremony two years ago at Punta Cana, the Dominican Republic. Then last year we registered as domestic partner in Kansas City. Now Iowa legalized gay marriage so thats just a short trip North and its just in time for our anniversery. So guess what? We are getting married.
I keep on singing "We are going to the courthouse and we're going to get maaarried, going to the courthouse of love." Then I say C do you take this woman to be your lawful wedded wife and she says I do and then I say well now you may kiss the bride.
I will do any thing for a kiss.